Dating should be fun with measures to ensure agreed boundaries. Meet in a public place, inform your family of the date and area. If you feel uncomfortable politely state you have to leave. If the date goes well don’t rush too quick. Profession job description don’t let that put you off a person. It’s all about the first intuitive interface of feeling safe and confident. Political leanings; that can come much later, don’t want to put a person off you immediately. Aspirations, goals and dreams; nothing wrong in declaring on first date.
Men are sensitive to rejection and women are sensitive to criticism. Not that I am an expert testimony, it’s rather an observation of other people’s experiences too. Men do not cope well with nagging and women like compliments of the dress and perfume, but don’t over do it. Oh men do appreciate a compliment. Body odour; so unpleasant, so make every effort to ensure you buy the best antibacterial soap. Psychology can be misleading, just because you’re an expert it certainly doesn’t mean you are always correct in analysing human behaviour.